Monday, October 19, 2009
Monday, October 12, 2009
Life is like an ice cream ……. Should I eat it up before it melts??
L – Love
I – Integrity
F – Friendship
E – Enjoyment
Then how come it becomes an Ice cream?? Let me break my life by far in stages as per my understanding….
When I was born I do not know what was in my mind but I am sure people around me were excited. I am the first child in my family, so I can imagine how much my Parent was happy. Till I understand that school is not only a place to play with friends but yes you need to study not only those subjects which you love but your entire syllabus - was it like I was having an ice cream?
I grew up and used to play football a lot. At times football was my first priority than study. But somehow people around me (GUARDIANS) used to force me to study for a good result in finals. For encouragement, I used to listen that one day I will have a good job, I will have money in hand, I will have my car – I do not know why they used to say that, everything used to be very much boring to me. Entire day I used to wait for afternoon so that I can go out and play – Was this life?
I managed to score reasonable and got into college which was in city and far away from my place. Nobody was there to see what I was doing. Bunking classes, playing carom, chatting with friends, watching movies and less study…. Was this an Ice cream?
I fall in love when I was in college. I thought of achieving something great. I started getting huge mental support or something exciting. It continued for five and half years. I enjoyed every moment of life and end up with surprises. For someone it was just a pastime and nothing else. It took around 2 years for me to come out from that circumstance. – What will I term this phase - an Ice cream or Life?
After college the most eventful phase of my life started named CAREER. I joined a small organization with a very little salary. Somehow that color of life got changed. Frequency of meeting friends got reduced drastically. I started getting interest in learning things and performing well. Still I am continuing the same. People around me but somehow I miss friendship in them. They are association and colleagues. I tried many times and still try to make a good friendship without business but somehow I do not get success. Since morning till I go to sleep am alone and always I need to be politically correct with my association – Is this Life?
There are people around me – My family who is there with me with no condition. Under any situation they think that I should be happy and safe. For me they are my support. Fortunately I met with someone and wish I can spend my life with her. Within very short span of time she took a very special space in my heart and more than anything I respect her and obviously I love her. But she is far away from me like my family. I am in touch with my closest ones over phone all the time. They are my life and satisfaction if they enjoy time with me – So is it life or an Ice cream?
----- Hey I am sure that you must me laughing by now that since then what this guy is writing. Actually as I accepted that I am pathetic in writing. I was talking to a colleague who sees life in a different way. He said “Life is like an ice cream, eat it up before it melts”. I was unable to understand why he said that and how come every moment of life can be sweet like an ice cream.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Hello
Thank you so much for visiting here. I am not sure how much you will like my blog. I am not exactly into writing and never thought of it seriously. I always keep my thoughts with me and sometimes share few of them with my friends. One of my friends very close to me suggested writing my thoughts whenever I get time and this is supposed to give me pleasure. So I respected that suggestion and created this blog. Hence I believe I justified the name of this blog “Just Like That…..”
I will not ask you to keep in touch with me here. This is just my diary sort of but I will feel really happy if I can be in touch with you somewhere. Making friendship is just not my hobby but I really want to believe people and respect them as my friend. When I hear my closest ones and well wishers advising me not to trust people just like that or you know keeping distance I really don’t like but I can’t prove them wrong……………………